wellness

Grief & Joy: Holidays

Grief & Joy: Holidays

The holiday season can be such an exciting time for so many people — and it can also hold a lot of emotion that isn’t all joy and merriness. I’m sure we’ve all acknowledged that there’s a societal pressure to be cheerful during this season, and sometimes just that thought can feel overwhelming.

Therapy for Anxiety

Therapy for Anxiety

How do we know when it’s time to bring in a professional to help manage anxiety? And at what point is therapy really necessary? If you’re asking yourself some of these questions right now, now is the time to stop and reflect.

Overthinking

Overthinking

Most people who overthink aren’t doing it because they enjoy worrying. They’re doing it because some part of them believes that if they think hard enough, long enough, or carefully enough, they can prevent pain, rejection, disappointment, or uncertainty.

The "Easy Child"

The "Easy Child"

When you've spent years appearing self-sufficient, people often assume you don't need much support. You become the person everyone leans on while quietly wishing someone would ask how you're doing.

Tired Even When Life Slows Down

Tired Even When Life Slows Down

Being productive or accomplished can become a primary way of feeling like we're enough. So when life slows down, it can really feel like an identity disruption.

Being Liked vs Being Known

Being Liked vs Being Known

You may have learned what to do or say to make things go smoother. You may have learned what behaviors or attitudes made people stay. You learned what made you easier to accept.

And slowly, those lessons became automatic.

What's Your Attachment Style?

What's Your Attachment Style?

Attachment styles are not your identity, but rather patterns for how your nervous system learned to keep you safe.

Stop Optimizing Your Joy

Stop Optimizing Your Joy

The moment we pick something up, our brain starts asking: How can I get better at this? How can I optimize this? Is this a productive use of my Saturday? The result? We never actually relax.

Dream Analysis in Therapy

Dream Analysis in Therapy

No matter how absurd or seemingly random, our dreams contain rich unconscious material that acts as a symbolic treasure hunt leading towards our inner psyche.